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February 01, 2021 · Bob Gass

Approval addiction 

“Fear of man will prove to be a snare.” Proverbs 29:25 NIV 

You can be addicted to a lot of different things like alcohol, drugs, sex, gambling, and even food. But did you know you can also be addicted to approval? When Moses chose seventy leaders to help govern Israel, he told them, “Do not show partiality in judging; hear both small and great alike. Do not be afraid of any [man]” (Deuteronomy 1:17 NIV). That is advice Peter should have taken. “Before certain men came from James, he used to eat with the Gentiles. But when they arrived, he began to draw back and separate himself from the Gentiles because he was afraid of those who belonged to the circumcision group” (Galatians 2:12 NIV). When your identity is wrapped up in other people’s acceptance, you set yourself up for approval addiction, because your sense of self-worth is always on the line. A notable French author said, “We’re so accustomed to wearing a disguise before others, that eventually we’re unable to recognize ourselves.” That’s not how God wants you to live! No one’s approval or disapproval can affect you—unless you give it credibility. Jesus spoke without feeling the need to create an impression; therefore, He was free to speak the truth in love. Someone wisely pointed out that when we are young, we worry about what people think and we try to please them. When we are middle-aged, we get tired of trying to please everybody. And as we get older and wiser, we realize that most of the time, they weren’t even thinking about us at all! Guess what? There are times when pleasing God means you won’t be able to please people—and you must accept that!

Bible in a year: Exodus 16-18 and Matthew 18:1-20

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